When A Woman Or Man Needs A Break Or Space

When a woman or man asks you for a break, or for some space from the relationship, it does not mean that your relationship is over. But, the end of the relationship can be close, depending on how you process and respond to her need for space.

The Request For Space, Or A Break

It happened. It happens. One day your woman, or wife, hints that she feels like she does not have her own time. The request for time away from you could be for a variety of reasons. For example, she may feel pressured by tasks at work or home. Or, she may feel pressured to make herself a better partner for you, and may be mentally working through a personal growth phase.

Sometimes, being needy or overly submissive results in your partner feeling suffocated and overwhelmed by the way you handle your feelings and needs in the relationship. Additionally, she may have recognized too many red flags in your character and personality. Or, you have become too comfortable and compliant in the relationship, resulting in lost respect for you. Maybe you stopped growing professionally, and stopped being the man she fell in love with. Another possible reason is that there is a lack of emotional connection in the relationship, which caused her to lose trust. It is difficult to trust someone who does not acknowledge your feelings. A very common cause for asking for a temporary break from you, or the relationship could be that she has already made up her mind and heart about leaving. However, she may be opting for letting you down easy so she does not cause additional emotional pain for you. Thus, she does not want to hurt your feelings.

Sometimes however, a female partner may initiate a breakup because she believes a break will force you to change the behavior that caused her to lose interest in you. Usually, ultimatum does not work, as intended, because most people generally do not make long-term personality changes under the threat of an ultimatum. People generally change their personality and interactions when there is the realization that a change needs to be made. The person needs to develop the awareness and the will to change from within their own safe space and growth process.

How To Take A Break From Your Relationship

Do not panic, beg, or become needy. If you emotionally smother the person requesting the break, you would be further validating the doubt about you as the best partner. Begging will give your partner the final bit of encouragement to permanently dump you. Most partners do not return to the relationship after this point. Use that time in solitude to deeply reflect on you, and to improve whatever behavior made her lose interest in you. Start a More Fans account. Have fun, post photos, and gain more fans and followers on the OnlyFans alternative. Do not put up with disrespect just because you still love her. While there were definitely some things you did, which may have contributed to her wanting to break, she most likely was not perfect either. Work on whatever you discover that you need to work on. But, make sure that you primarily do this for yourself, not for her. Also, calmly communicate her part that caused problems in the relationship. If she does not recognize that, you may need to consider the request for a separation, as a final breakup or divorce. Rediscover, or create, your purpose. Your purpose in life is not to make your partner happy. Let us repeat this. Your life's purpose is not to make your partner happy. Happiness comes from within. And, you are here to perfect and share your gift with your partner and the world. Through self-discovery, you can find out what your gift is. Your partner can help you grow and use your gift. Partners should help to improve your experience of life. Women are seeking men who they look up to and follow, not a guy who makes her his only purpose in life. Your purpose should be greater than your own self, dating, and relationships. Find Singles near me. Join More Fans, the Instagram alternative.